Divorce is the single most important transaction you are likely to complete in your life. Do you really want to improvise and hope for the best?

You wouldn’t wing it when buying a house or applying for a job—so why risk it with your future, your finances, and your children’s wellbeing?

Yes, you can search the internet or ask ChatGPT—but the D.O.S. Programme offers what they don’t:

• All the essential information in one place

• Guidance specific to England and Wales (no more mistakenly reading U.S. websites!)

• Expert insights you can trust—clear, practical, and based on years of experience

• Mistakes to avoid, pros and cons of your options, and real-world experience you won’t find in a Google search

This isn’t just information. It’s a strategy. A clear guide to help you stay in control and avoid costly errors.

You only get one chance to get it right. Make it count.

Here’s something most people don't realise: even if you go to court, you’ll still end up negotiating. In fact, 95% of cases settle through negotiation, without a judge making decisions for you.

The D.O.S. Programme is specifically designed to help you deal with a difficult ex. You’ll learn proven strategies to manage conflict, stay focused, and avoid getting stuck—no matter how your ex behaves.

Instead of reacting emotionally or giving up, you’ll be equipped with the tools to stay in control and move things forward.

You can’t change your ex—but you can change your approach. And that changes everything.

Saying “I can’t afford help” may feel true now—but what’s the real cost of not getting support? Wasted time. Costly legal mistakes. A poor financial settlement. A parenting plan that doesn’t work. 

The D.O.S. Programme costs less than four hours of a solicitor's time—the same as what many would charge just to file your divorce paperwork, which is only the simplest part of the process. The rest—negotiating finances, parenting arrangements, communicating with your ex—is far more complex and where costly errors are made.

This is a life-altering legal process with long-term consequences. It’s normal to need help. The D.O.S. Programme gives you clear, affordable, reliable guidance—so you can make smart decisions and stay in control.

You can’t afford not to.

You might think “there are services that do it all for you”—but actually, most of them only handle the paperwork. And while it’s helpful to have the admin done for you, that doesn’t solve the real challenge: agreeing what happens to your finances, your home, and your children.

The D.O.S. Programme covers every aspect of your divorce—not just forms. From money to parenting to rebuilding life after divorce, it gives you clear, strategic guidance so you can reach fair agreements and avoid costly mistakes.

Compare that to services like Amicable, who charge £3,450 just to support you with the financial order alone.

D.O.S. gives you the full picture—for a fraction of the cost.

The D.O.S. Programme is fully self-paced—you can go through it in your own time, whenever it suits you. And here’s the truth: you’ll have to do most of this work anyway, whether you're working with a lawyer or representing yourself. In fact, if you're a litigant in person, you'll likely have to do even more.

This programme helps you save time by guiding you step by step, so you’re not wasting hours googling, second-guessing, or making costly mistakes. It’s an investment now that saves you countless hours—and stress—later.

That’s exactly why the D.O.S. Programme exists. You don’t need to be a natural negotiator to get a fair outcome. The programme teaches you simple, effective techniques to help you stay calm, confident, and in control—even if your ex is pushy, emotional or manipulative.

You’ll learn what to say, what to avoid, and how to handle pressure without being drawn into arguments or giving in too quickly. With the right tools and mindset, anyone can negotiate well—even a beginner.

It’s understandable to want to use your money wisely—and that’s exactly why the D.O.S. Programme exists. Lawyers typically charge £500+VAT per hour and bill for every phone call, email, and minute of their time. Just getting a solicitor to file your divorce application can cost thousands of pounds. Financial disclosure and negotiations alone? At least £5,000.

The content in this programme covers all those stages—and more—for less than the cost of four hours of a lawyer’s time. You’ll be equipped to handle the process confidently, use lawyers only when necessary, and save thousands in legal fees by avoiding common pitfalls and delays.

It’s not a cost—it’s a strategic investment that pays for itself many times over.

That’s exactly the point—you’re not doing this alone. The D.O.S. Programme isn’t a DIY kit, it’s a complete step-by-step guide with an experienced and qualified professional by your side throughout.

For the parts of the process that require expert advice, I’ll clearly highlight when and why you might want to make an additional investment, and explain the pros and cons, so you can make informed decisions before spending more.

Plus, you’ll have access to my curated directory of trusted professionals, from family lawyers to mortgage brokers—people I work with personally, so you’re not left guessing who to turn to.